MUSINGS OF AN “OLDER” MAN. Nr.57

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Nr.56 ended with: “We continued to trust the Lord for all our needs and did not make those needs known. We had enough to live on but nothing extra and so when our three little girls asked for tricycles, we prayed. A few days later we received a phone call ……!”

I picked up the phone and a woman’s voice asked how we were and whether we could use a tricycle. Surprised I answered, “I think so!” She then asked whether I could come over. When I got there, she took me into the garage and there, amazingly stood three used tricycles, unbelievable! I asked how much they would cost and she answered that they were free. I took them home, not showing them to our girls until I had bought some paint and given them a fresh paint job after which they looked like new. You should have seen our girls, what an excitement! We thanked the Lord together and off they went, leaving us with tears in our eyes! Again we had experienced that our God is interested in small things, what a wonderful heavenly Father we have.

While continuing to minister in the area in different ways, holding evangelistic meetings, home Bible studies, some with Dutch people and preaching in assemblies, the burden on our hearts for Europe continued to grow. At every prayer meeting at WBC we would ask to pray for Europe. Finally we decided to make a trip to Holland to “spy out the land” and see whether and where the Lord would open a door. So after leaving the girls with good friends, Marina and I flew to the country I had left more than 12 years before. It was great to see my family and have them meet Marina. My younger brother and his wife had a Volkswagen Beetle and they drove us all over Holland, visiting family, churches and special meetings, while all the while we were praying and looking to the Lord to open a door for us. But after four weeks we returned to Canada a bit discouraged as nothing had opened up. We were starting to wonder whether we were on the right track……..! (Go to Musings)

Columnists Matthew Parris: “As an atheist, I truly believe Africa needs God”.

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Columnists Matthew Parris

From The Times

December 27, 2008

As an atheist, I truly believe Africa needs God

Missionaries, not aid money, are the solution to Africa’s biggest problem – the crushing passivity of the people’s mindset

Matthew Parris

Before Christmas I returned, after 45 years, to the country that as a boy I knew as Nyasaland. Today it’s Malawi, and The Times Christmas Appeal includes a small British charity working there. Pump Aid helps rural communities to install a simple pump, letting people keep their village wells sealed and clean. I went to see this work.

It inspired me, renewing my flagging faith in development charities. But travelling in Malawi refreshed another belief, too: one I’ve been trying to banish all my life, but an observation I’ve been unable to avoid since my African childhood. It confounds my ideological beliefs, stubbornly refuses to fit my world view, and has embarrassed my growing belief that there is no God.

Now a confirmed atheist, I’ve become convinced of the enormous contribution that Christian evangelism makes in Africa: sharply distinct from the work of secular NGOs, government projects and international aid efforts. These alone will not do. Education and training alone will not do. In Africa Christianity changes people’s hearts. It brings a spiritual transformation. The rebirth is real. The change is good.

I used to avoid this truth by applauding – as you can – the practical work of mission churches in Africa. It’s a pity, I would say, that salvation is part of the package, but Christians black and white, working in Africa, do heal the sick, do teach people to read and write; and only the severest kind of secularist could see a mission hospital or school and say the world would be better without it. I would allow that if faith was needed to motivate missionaries to help, then, fine: but what counted was the help, not the faith.

But this doesn’t fit the facts. Faith does more than support the missionary; it is also transferred to his flock. This is the effect that matters so immensely, and which I cannot help observing.

First, then, the observation. We had friends who were missionaries, and as a child I stayed often with them; I also stayed, alone with my little brother, in a traditional rural African village. In the city we had working for us Africans who had converted and were strong believers. The Christians were always different. Far from having cowed or confined its converts, their faith appeared to have liberated and relaxed them. There was a liveliness, a curiosity, an engagement with the world – a directness in their dealings with others – that seemed to be missing in traditional African life. They stood tall.

At 24, travelling by land across the continent reinforced this impression. From Algiers to Niger, Nigeria, Cameroon and the Central African Republic, then right through the Congo to Rwanda, Tanzania and Kenya, four student friends and I drove our old Land Rover to Nairobi.

We slept under the stars, so it was important as we reached the more populated and lawless parts of the sub-Sahara that every day we find somewhere safe by nightfall. Often near a mission.

Whenever we entered a territory worked by missionaries, we had to acknowledge that something changed in the faces of the people we passed and spoke to: something in their eyes, the way they approached you direct, man-to-man, without looking down or away. They had not become more deferential towards strangers – in some ways less so – but more open.

This time in Malawi it was the same. I met no missionaries. You do not encounter missionaries in the lobbies of expensive hotels discussing development strategy documents, as you do with the big NGOs. But instead I noticed that a handful of the most impressive African members of the Pump Aid team (largely from Zimbabwe) were, privately, strong Christians. “Privately” because the charity is entirely secular and I never heard any of its team so much as mention religion while working in the villages. But I picked up the Christian references in our conversations. One, I saw, was studying a devotional textbook in the car. One, on Sunday, went off to church at dawn for a two-hour service.

It would suit me to believe that their honesty, diligence and optimism in their work was unconnected with personal faith. Their work was secular, but surely affected by what they were. What they were was, in turn, influenced by a conception of man’s place in the Universe that Christianity had taught.

There’s long been a fashion among Western academic sociologists for placing tribal value systems within a ring fence, beyond critiques founded in our own culture: “theirs” and therefore best for “them”; authentic and of intrinsically equal worth to ours.

I don’t follow this. I observe that tribal belief is no more peaceable than ours; and that it suppresses individuality. People think collectively; first in terms of the community, extended family and tribe. This rural-traditional mindset feeds into the “big man” and gangster politics of the African city: the exaggerated respect for a swaggering leader, and the (literal) inability to understand the whole idea of loyal opposition.

Anxiety – fear of evil spirits, of ancestors, of nature and the wild, of a tribal hierarchy, of quite everyday things – strikes deep into the whole structure of rural African thought. Every man has his place and, call it fear or respect, a great weight grinds down the individual spirit, stunting curiosity. People won’t take the initiative, won’t take things into their own hands or on their own shoulders.

How can I, as someone with a foot in both camps, explain? When the philosophical tourist moves from one world view to another he finds – at the very moment of passing into the new – that he loses the language to describe the landscape to the old. But let me try an example: the answer given by Sir Edmund Hillary to the question: Why climb the mountain? “Because it’s there,” he said.

To the rural African mind, this is an explanation of why one would not climb the mountain. It’s… well, there. Just there. Why interfere? Nothing to be done about it, or with it. Hillary’s further explanation – that nobody else had climbed it – would stand as a second reason for passivity.

Christianity, post-Reformation and post-Luther, with its teaching of a direct, personal, two-way link between the individual and God, unmediated by the collective, and unsubordinate to any other human being, smashes straight through the philosphical/spiritual framework I’ve just described. It offers something to hold on to those anxious to cast off a crushing tribal groupthink. That is why and how it liberates.

Those who want Africa to walk tall amid 21st-century global competition must not kid themselves that providing the material means or even the know how that accompanies what we call development will make the change. A whole belief system must first be supplanted.

And I’m afraid it has to be supplanted by another. Removing Christian evangelism from the African equation may leave the continent at the mercy of a malign fusion of Nike, the witch doctor, the mobile phone and the machete.

 

 

OVERPEINZINGEN VAN EEN “OUDERE” MAN. Nr.56

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Nr.55 eindigde met: “Wij begonnen heel sterk Gods leiding te ervaren ivm ons toekomstig zendingswerk in Europa. Bepaalde dingen begonnen duidelijk te worden en wij zagen Nederland en België dichterbij komen.. ………!”

Wij genoten echt van de gemeenschap bij WBC. Een Open Broeder Gemeente verschilt wat van andere kerken, ik zeg niet ze beter is, gewoon anders. Er waren drie dingen die mij echt raakten en waarmee ik het volledig eens was. 1. Ik geloof dat de Bijbel leert dat er een meervoud van leiders of oudsten in een gemeente moeten zijn, niet één man. Voorgangers worden dikwijls gezien als een speciale groep van mensen, op een beetje hoger niveau dan de leken, zoiets als priesters in de Katholieke Kerk en in het O.T. Begrijp me niet verkeerd, ik veroordeel geen voorgangers en ik dank God voor iedere man die zich geroepen voelt voorganger te zijn, maar ik heb me nooit goed gevoeld als DE voorganger van een kerk.

2. Ik geloof dat de Bijbel leert dat alle N.Testamentische gelovigen priesters zijn. De meeste evangelische gemeenten geloven dat, maar het wordt over het algemeen niet omgezet in de praktijk.

3. Ik geloof dat we het voorbeeld van de eerste christenen dienen te volgen en iedere zondag communie, avondmaal of het “breken van het brood” dienen te vieren. Deze drie dingen werden bij WBC geloofd, geleerd en in de praktijk gebracht. Ik heb altijd geloofd dat hoe dichter wij bij de leer en praktijk van de eerste kerk konden blijven, hoe beter. Deze overtuiging heeft later veel zegen gebracht in het werk in België. Ik realiseerde dat de Heer ons dingen toonde en ons aan het voorbereiden was voor onze toekomstige bediening in Europa.

Ondertussen bleven we doorgaan met evangelisatiesamenkomsten en predikingen. De oudsten van WBC droegen ons op aan het werk van de Heer, hetgeen inhield dat wij steun ontvingen van WBC zoals de Heer voorzag, en dat dit aan andere gemeenten bekendgemaakt werd, waarvan wij dan ook af en toe wat steun ontvingen. Wij bleven op de Heer vertrouwen om in onze noden te voorzien en maakten die noden nooit bekend. We ontvingen genoeg om van te leven, maar hadden niets extra en toen onze drie meisjes vroegen voor driewielertjes hebben we dat in gebed bij de Heer gebracht. Enkele dagen later kregen we telefoon……..! (Ga naar Overpeinzingen)

 

MUSINGS OF AN “OLDER” MAN. Nr.56

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Nr.55 ended with: “At the same time we were starting to sense God’s leading in regards to going to Europe as missionaries. Things were starting to shape up and Holland and Belgium were coming closer……..!”

We thoroughly enjoyed fellowshipping at WBC. A Brethren Assembly is a bit different from other churches; I’m not saying it is better, but different. In fact there were three things that really touched my heart and with which I was in total agreement. 1. I believe that the Bible teaches that there should be a plurality of leaders or elders in every local church, not just one man. Pastors are often perceived to be a special group of people, on a higher level than the laity, like priests in the Roman Catholic Church and like priests in the O.T. Don’t get me wrong, I am not judging pastors and I thank God for every godly man who has felt called to pastor, but I never felt at ease being THE pastor of a church.

2. I believe the Bible teaches that all N.T. believers are priests. Most evangelical churches believe this but do not really put it into practice.

3. I believe that we ought to follow the example of the early Christians and have communion, or “breaking of bread” every Sunday morning. I found these three in practice at WBC and I rejoiced. I had always felt that the closer we stayed to the early church, as found in the N.T. the better. This conviction would later bring real blessing in Belgium. I realized that the Lord was showing us things and preparing us for our future ministry in Europe.

In the mean time we continued on with an evangelistic and preaching ministry. The elders of WBC “commended” us to full-time work of the Lord, which meant that they would support us as the Lord provided and that other assemblies were notified of this and would also support us from time to time. We continued to trust the Lord for all our needs and did not make those needs known. We had enough to live on but nothing extra and so when our three little girls asked for tricycles, we prayed. A few days later we received a phone call ……! (Go to Musings)

 

OVERPEINZINGEN VAN EEN “OUDERE” MAN. Nr.55

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Nr.54 eindigde met: “Enkele mensen van Wallenstein Bible Chapel, een Open Broeder Vergadering, waren aanwezig. Natuurlijk wisten wij toen nog niet wat een belangrijke rol deze kerk zou hebben in onze toekomst…..!”

Toen onze tijd er op zat in Singhampton, zijn we met onze drie lieve dochters die 1½ , 3½ en 5 jaar waren naar een huis op een boerderij in Drayton verhuisd, omdat we Wallenstein Bible Chapel, van nu aan WBC genoemd, wilden leren kennen. We hadden een aantal van de leden en oudsten ontmoet op sommige van mijn evangelisatiesamenkomsten. Een van de oudsten was na een samenkomst naar mij toegekomen, had zijn vinger op mijn borst gedrukt en gezegd, “Jij bent een van ons”, waarmee hij bedoelde dat ik geloofde en leerde wat zij ook geloofden en leerden. Een van de eerste samenkomsten die wij bijwoonden in die kerk was een doopdienst op een zondagnamiddag. De plaats was overvol en mijn vrouw en ik en onze drie meisjes zaten op de laatste rij. Terwijl er een aantal liederen werden gezongen, kwamen twee oudsten naar mij toe en vertelden mij dat de spreker niet was komen opdagen, of ik prediken kon? Ik vroeg hen nog twee liederen te zingen terwijl ik in een kamertje van achteren de Heer om een boodschap zou vragen. En de Heer deed dat, ik predikte van Johannes 6 en de Heer stond mij echt bij, ik zal dat nooit vergeten. Natuurlijk kende iedereen ons nu.

Wij voelden ons echt welkom hier en geloofden dat dit de kerk of gemeente was waarvan wij deel dienden uit te maken. Kort daarop werden wij in de gemeenschap opgenomen, zoiets als lidmaatschap in andere kerken. Ik ging door met het houden van evangelisatiesamenkomsten. Marina hield een Vakantiebijbelschool in het gebouw van de United Church in Drayton. Gedurende drie weken van samenkomsten in Clinton, kwamen enkele mensen tot geloof, waaronder Beryl Gelling, de vrouw van Henk Gelling die iets later in een samenkomst in de VS de Heer aanvaardde. Kort daarna lieten zij zich dopen in een rivier, maar iemand anders moest prediken omdat ik mijn stem kwijt was.

Wij begonnen heel sterk Gods leiding te ervaren ivm ons toekomstig zendingswerk in Europa. Bepaalde dingen begonnen duidelijk te worden en wij zagen Nederland en België dichterbij komen.. ………! (Ga naar Overpeinzingen)

 

MUSINGS OF AN “OLDER” MAN. Nr.55

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Nr.54 ended with: “Some people from Wallenstein Bible Chapel, an Open Brethren Assembly attended. Of course, at that time we did not know what an important part this assembly would have in our future….!”

When our time in Singhampton was up we moved with our three lovely daughters, ages 1½ , 3½ and 5 to a farm house close to Drayton, as we wanted to get to know Wallenstein Bible Chapel, from now on called WBC. We had met a number of the people and elders at some of my meetings. One elder had come to me after a meeting, put his finger on my chest and commented, “You are one of us,” meaning that what I believed and taught was what they believed and taught. One of the first meetings we attended at WBC was a Sunday afternoon baptism service. The place was packed and my wife and I with our three little girls sat on the back row. A number of hymns were sung and then two of the elders came to me and said that the speaker had not come, could I preach? I told them to sing two more hymns and I would go to the back room and ask the Lord for a message. And He did, I spoke on John 6, I will never forget and the Lord gave real liberty. After that everyone knew us.

We really felt welcome and believed that this was the church God wanted us to be part off. Shortly after that, we were received into fellowship, something like membership in other churches. I continued with holding evangelistic meetings and preached at WBC at times. Marina conducted DVBS in the Drayton United Church building. During three weeks of meetings in Clinton, ON, some were saved. One of these was Beryl Gelling, wife of Henk Gelling who would become a Christian a short while later at some meetings in the USA. A brief time later they were baptized in a river, but another brother in Christ preached as I had lost my voice. They would later become our co-workers in Belgium.

At the same time we were starting to sense God’s leading in regards to going to Europe as missionaries. Things were starting to shape up and Holland and Belgium were coming closer……..! (Go to Musings)

Quote from Joni Eareckson Tada

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My Mangled Earrings

I once admired the earrings my friend, Ann, was wearing – they were square, smooth, flat, and made of gold. When I remarked how beautiful they were, she replied, “They’re yours!” Ann then proceeded to take them off and put them on my ears! Humbled by her gift, the earrings became a treasure. Once while wearing them at work, one slipped off my ear – I looked but couldn’t find it, so I wheeled to my office door to ask for help. That’s when I felt a clunk-clunk-clunk. The earring was impaled on my tire; it was ruined! That weekend I took it to a jeweller and asked, “Sir, can you make this mangled earring look like the smooth one?” He rubbed his chin and said, “I can’t make that one look like this one… But I can make this one look like that one!” He then took a mallet and hammered the smooth, square earring into a mangled mess! At first I was horrified, but now I realize that the misshapen earrings reflect the light more beautifully than when they were ‘normal.’ It’s a lesson reflected in this timeless poem: 

When God wants to drill a man,

And thrill a man, and skill a man,

When God wants to make a man

To play the noblest part,

When He yearns with all His heart

To build so great and bold a man

That all the world shall be amazed,

Then watch His methods, watch His ways!

 How He ruthlessly perfects,

Whom He royally elects;

How He hammers him and hurts him,

And with mighty blows converts him

Into shapes and forms of clay

Which only God can understand

While man’s tortured heart is crying

And he lifts beseeching hands…

 Yet God bends but never breaks

When man’s good He undertakes;

How He uses whom He chooses,

And with mighty power, infuses him,

With every act induces him to try

His splendor out,

God knows what He’s about.

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DEATH: WHAT A WONDERFUL WAY TO EXPLAIN IT.

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A sick man turned to his doctor as he was preparing to leave the examination room and said,
‘Doctor, I am afraid to die. Tell me what lies on the other side…’ Very quietly, the doctor said, ‘I don’t know…’
‘You don’t know? You’re, a Christian man, and don’t know what’s on the other side?’
The doctor was holding the handle of the door;
On the other side came a sound of scratching and whining, and as he opened the door, a dog sprang into the room and leaped on him with an eager show of gladness.
Turning to the patient, the doctor said, ‘Did you notice my dog?
He’s never been in this room before. He didn’t know what was inside…
He knew nothing except that his master was here, and when the door opened, he sprang in without fear.
I know little of what is on the other side of death, but I do know one thing…
I know my Master is there and that is enough.’

De tandarts

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Er zat een man bij de tandarts in de stoel en na de behandeling zei de man; “dank aan God”!

De tandarts keek verbaast op vroeg waarom hij God bedankte en zei erbij; “Ik heb u toch behandeld? En als er een god zou zijn, hoe komen dan alle ziekten, oorlogen en pijn in de wereld?”

Waarop de man antwoordde: “ik geloof eigenlijk niet in tandartsen”

De tandarts snapte er nog minder van en vroeg weer aan de man waarom dan niet? Hij zat toch in de stoel en hij had hem net behandeld.

Waarop de man zei; “Nou luister, er zijn veel mensen op de wereld met kiespijn en gaatjes en problemen met hun gebit.”

Waarop de tandarts uitviel met: “Ja maar dat is toch niet MIJN verantwoordelijkheid? De mensen kiezen er zelf voor om hun gebit te verwaarlozen!”

“Precies”, zei de man. “Hoe kun u dan God verantwoordelijk stellen voor de slechte keuzes die de mensen maken?”

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